How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:26
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Why do I smell bad even though I have good hygiene?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Why do I sweat so much after shower?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
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Ask yourself:
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Does not procrastinate.
Is it safe to say that China is at least 30 years ahead of India?
Hangs out with loser friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
That's it for today.
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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How can we become the best humans? How can we trust each other?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why do most people care so much about what others think? Are they afraid of society norms?
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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Why are the Chinese so sensitive to Western criticism?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Making more friends is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.